Discovering the Value you have to offer others is Crucial
Focus on giving value
No matter how many coaching classes I open up or work with others helping them become successful online, I continually run into the same problem over and over.
When I do an analysis on the individual to find out what level they are at, I ask a series of questions.
A couple of questions I ask are: ” What weaknesses do you feel you have,” Usually this pretty much fills the conversation for the next 20 minutes until stop them. Why is it we can find it so easy to focus on the weaknesses we have? The next question I ask is, “what strengths and value do you feel you have to offer to the process.” Usually I hear silence on the other end at this point.
As we begin to talk I discover that life has beat them down so bad, and someone has told that person over and over that they are just going to fail and should give up, until that person does not feel like they really have anything to give at all.
They have been hanging around so much negativity in their life that they no longer believe they have value to offer.
That is just plain crazy. Everyone of us is valuable and everyone of us has value to offer.
You have to get rid of the negativity in your life. I do realize that some of this negativity is coming from those around you that may be the closest to you. It may be your spouse, or your parents, or children. This makes it very hard to escape but it just has to stop if you are to find the success you are looking for. Well I am certainly not suggessting you get a divorce, or get rid of the parents or children, so what are you to do?
Most of this is going to have to come from within you. You are going to need to stop dwelling on what other people are thinking and the impression that you are going to make on other people and really start just start to focus on giving value.
Forget about people who might find your goals and Dreams as being silly and a waste of time. Focus on the value you’re going to give by the actions you are going to take. Focus on the people who will benefit from your actions, and how exactly they’re going to appreciate the value. .
The greatest part of discovering the value you have to offer and then GIVE is this… It begins to return back to you over and over in ways you would have never imagined possible.
You need to realize your potential and your strengths and the value that you really have and you need to focus on the strengths.
One thing we tend to do is not use the strengths we have to our advantage. You were given these strengths or developed them for a reason. Focus on giving with the strengths you have.
One of my weaknesses is technical issues. Well focusing on the fact that I did not know a lot of the tech issues kept me down for a long time.
Once I focused on the strengths and let someone else handle the things I didn’t know so well I began to really get things done. Hey I have developed 4 products and working on number 5 in the last year. Everyone of them had technical aspects involved. Guess what they got done and I focused on what I was good at.
Realize right now, even if you can’t see it in yourself as you look into your inner self right now that YOU ARE VALUABLE!
Everyone and I mean everyone has tremendous value that they can bring to the table.
Just trust me on this and let’s work to discover the greatness that is in you. What you have may be just the thing that my business is lacking, and what you lack I may be the person that will be the best fit to help you achieve your greatness.
Isn’t it time you discover your value and begin to share it with those who are waiting for you to come along.
You can make such a huge IMPACT in the lives of those around you and around the world…But first you must take some action.
The action you take will decide the IMPACT you make, either positive or negative.
To Your Success
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My Friend Ken McArthur is creating a huge IMPACT in the lives of somany people. I just bet it isnt being done by focusing on the things he can’t do.
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